Living Life One Day at a Time

I hope i made you laugh
when you were about to cry

I hope i made you smile
you you really wanted to die

I hope i made you think about something twice you wouldnt have before

because you’ve done all this for me, and you did a whole lot more

i know its probably hard for you to see…
how much you truly mean to me

…and please know down deep in your heart,

even though we’re far apart

that ill always be there for you to call,

when you need some help from your fall

“To be happy in life, you must learn the difference between what you want vs need. If a drop of water falls in lake there is no identity. But if it falls on a leaf of lotus it shines like a pearl. So choose the best place where you would shine. When you are successful, your well wishers know who you are. When you are unsuccessful, you know who your well wishers are. Life is not measured by the breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away. It is great confidence in a friend to tell him your faults; greater to tell his/her. Most courageous person is the one who accepts his/her mistakes & weakness. Effort is important, but knowing where to make an effort in your life makes all the difference. Never take some one for granted, Hold every person Close to your Heart because you might wake up one day and realize that you have lost a diamond while you were too busy collecting stones.” Remember this always in life. Some people think that to be strong is to never feel pain. In Reality the strong people are the ones who feel it, understand it, and accept it. My pain may be the reason for somebody’s laugh. But my laugh should never be the reason for somebody’s pain. Never expect things to happen. Struggle and make them happen. Never expect yourself to be given a good value. Create a value of your own. Don’t handicap your children by making their lives easy.”
“i want the man that would go into the fastfood place to order the food because he knows that i hate to do it. i want the man that would hold my purse when i try on clothes, not caring what people think. i want the man that would color with me like little kids. i want the man that would tell me i’m beautiful while wearing sweats. i want the man that would hang out with me with his friends. i want the man that would tell me he needs to get ‘guy time.’ i want the man that would take me on romantic dates. i want the man that would take me to a scary movie and let me hold his hand the whole time. i want the man that would watch chick flicks with me, and when i cried, he’d wipe away my tears. i want the man that would stay on the phone, even if i wasn’t saying anything. i want the man that would know in a millasecond that i wasn’t okay. i want the man that would come visit me, bring me chicken soup, and cuddle up watching daytime tv when i was sick.
i want the man that would defend me to any a**hole or b**ch. i want the man that would just hold me. i want the man that would give me hugs that make me weak in my knees. i want the man that would be able to give me butterflies with just a smile. i want the boy that could make me smile with just one kiss. i want the man that would kiss me in the rain. i want the boy that would dance with me, in the rain or shine. i want the man that would sing with me obnoxiously. i want the man that would push me on the swings and catch me at the end of the slide. i want the man that would call me baby. i want the man that would say i love you and mean it with all of his heart. i want the man that would just be my best friend…forever.”
What Is A Dad?

A dad is someone who wants to catch you before you fall but instead picks you up, brushes you off, and lets you try again. A dad is someone who wants to keep you from making mistakes but instead lets you find your own way, even though his heart breaks in silence when you get hurt. A dad is someone who holds you when you cry, scolds you when you break the rules, shines with pride when you succeed, and has faith in you even when you fail…



“In My Heart I thought of you with love today,but that is nothing new…I thought about you yesterday, and days before that too. I think of you in silence, I often speak your name.Now all I have are memories, and your picture in a frame. Your memory is my keepsake, with which I’ll never part. God has you in Heaven, I have you in my heart.”

It’s hard to live alone. It’s harder to choose someone you could love. But the hardest part of loving is to admit you have fallen in love with someone you didn’t mean to love from the start.

Do you remember the last time I told you I love you? No, you don’t. Cause it was never important to you. Did you hear it? No, you didn’t. Cause you never listened. Do you know it’s true? No, you don’t. Cause I’m your friend and that’s all I’ve been to you.

We shared some laughs, we shared some tears, all these and more throughout the years. But now it’s over, everything is gone. My memories of you have shattered one by one. I don’t know what happened, I really have no clue. The only mistake I made was to fall in love with you.


WHY A BAD PERSON LIVES LONG and WELL AND A GOOD PERSON SUFFERS ALL HIS/HER LIFE,I KNOW THERE IS AN EXPLANATION FOR THIS? I GOT FROM DIFFERENT RELIGIONS BUT I’M NOT ALWAYS SATISFIED THE ANSWERED,CAN U HELP ME TO FIND OUT THE ANSWER?THANK YOU SO MUCH IF YOU GIVE TIME TO ANSWER IT.

A lesson in life

Everything happens for a reason.Nothing happens by chance or by means of good or bad luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity. All occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small test, if they be events, illness or relationships, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. 

If someone hurts you, betrayes you, or breaks your heart, forgive them. For they have helped you learn about trust, and the importance of being cautious to who you open your heart too.

If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love and opening your heart and eyes to things that you would have never seen or felt without them. 

Make everyday count. Appreciate every moment, and take from it everything you possiably can, for you may never be able to expiernce it again.

Talk to people you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Hold your head up, because you have the right too. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself. For if you don’t believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you either. 

You can make of your life anything you wish, create your own life and then go out there and live it.

Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you.

When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful.

There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colours seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all.

A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do.

Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.

I guess overall, I’ve learned that not everything is going to go according to plan, not everything will make sense, and not everything will make you happy. You’re going to get hurt, and sometimes really bad. But you have to do what’s best for you. People change, things change, and we move on, mature, and accept what isn’t meant to be.
But no matter what, life goes on, and it doesn’t stop for anyone.